Resources
Helpful tools for learning, reflection, and support.
The right resource can help put words to what you're experiencing, offer a new perspective, or give you something meaningful to explore between sessions. These are books, assessments, and organizations I often recommend based on a client's particular needs and circumstances.
Inclusion on this page does not mean I endorse every perspective or recommendation contained within a particular resource. These resources are provided for educational purposes and are not a substitute for individualized professional care.
Recommended Reading
Books I often recommend
Sexuality, Intimacy & Healing
The Sexual Healing Journey
When Your Husband Is Addicted to Pornography
Restoring the Pleasure
Wired for Intimacy
Out of the Shadows
Marriage & Relationships
Sacred Marriage
Getting the Love You Want
Attached
Parenting & Family
Parenting with Love and Logic
The Anxious Generation
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Fun & helpful assessments for couples
Sometimes a simple assessment can spark conversations couples haven't thought to have before. These aren't diagnostic tools, but they can be a fun and helpful way to learn more about yourself and your partner, recognize differences, and open the door to deeper conversations.
The 5 Love Languages Quiz
Explore the ways you tend to give and receive love and compare your results with your partner.
Take the quiz →The Apology Language Quiz
Learn what makes an apology feel meaningful to you and why your spouse's apology may not always be the one you need.
Take the quiz →Enneagram Assessment
Explore personality patterns, motivations, strengths, and areas for growth, then consider how those differences show up in your relationship.
Take the assessment →Attachment Style Quiz
Explore patterns of connection, closeness, independence, reassurance, and emotional safety that may influence your relationships.
Take the quiz →These assessments are provided for education, self-reflection, and conversation. They are not clinical diagnostic tools and should not be used as a substitute for professional evaluation or individualized care.
Helpful Organizations & Support
Additional places to find support
re|engage
A Christian marriage ministry offering biblical teaching, community, and support for couples who want to strengthen their marriage.
Visit re|engage →Pure Desire Ministries
Christian resources and support related to pornography, unwanted sexual behavior, betrayal trauma, intimacy, and relational healing.
Visit Pure Desire →HopeQuest Support Groups
Support groups and recovery resources for individuals, spouses, and families navigating difficult relational and behavioral concerns.
Explore support groups →988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Free, confidential crisis support available 24/7 by call, text, or chat.
Visit 988 Lifeline →Veterans Crisis Line
24/7 confidential crisis support for Veterans, service members, and those who care about them.
Visit Veterans Crisis Line →RAINN National Sexual Assault Hotline
Free, confidential 24/7 support and resources for survivors of sexual assault and abuse.
Visit RAINN →National Domestic Violence Hotline
Free, confidential support, safety planning, and referrals for people affected by relationship abuse.
Visit The Hotline →If you are in immediate danger or experiencing a life-threatening emergency, call 911 or go to the nearest emergency department.